What Does Love Mean To You?

I started this post with a video from an artist many may not know...his name is Norman Connors and this song..., (sung by Ada Dyer when she was only 17 & just graduated from high school), this song...it describes the beginning of love for so many people. So many times we all enter into this phase, where we are living out these fairy tale dreams of love & romance and no one can pull us down from cloud 9. It is a beautiful feeling.

And then it fades.

And the reality of whom the other person is sets in. And with many things in life we either adapt to that change, (which was never a change in the first place but a distortion of the truth), or we give up. Many hang in there and face unhappy times just to convince themselves that what they are doing is right. I believe that is the arrogance of human beings coming through in its most obvious yet almost all choose to ignore it. I mean, hey, we just CAN'T be wrong...IMPOSSIBLE that this person that WE chose is not what WE thought at all. That's the thing though...everyone is their OWN PERSON. No matter what you do they were them before you met them and will always be what they are after your ass is long gone.

I'm not even gonna address the people who cheat because that's a completely different topic. I will finish with this however. Reality is no fairy tale. No one can be perfect. What we must search for, instead of this perfect being which only exists in our minds, is for the one whom we can relate to the most. And I can only speak for myself when I say that I want that one person who can truly think on that next level. Of course I want her to be beautiful physically, but her MIND must be just as beautiful as well. So that's why I believe I can't hold a relationship for shit. I'm just not contempt with what I'm finding, I'm never settling for less, and yes I know that the fairy tale can't come true. But I'm trying to find that one that is damn near close to that shit. In fact, I've known a person like that for a long time...maybe one day we'll be together. But I ain't gonna stress that.

So yea you ain't gonna catch me with no whores or anything like that, but if you see me with a different chick frequently, you know what it is.

"We all looking for wifey material. A woman that's fine, smart, classy but not a snob; hella hella sexy but not a ho. That's brown sugar."

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-BLACK SUNN